The Dreams, the Reality and the Truth

It’s been a while since I’ve written a post but it’s good to do it again. It’s never easy when you are catching up with your studies, doing YouTube videos and – other things. Time is precious thing and I want to make every moment count. That’s why I wanted to write about collaborations between dreams and reality. Mine are complicated; full of secrets, locked inside me and barriers daring to not break them – but I will.

All my life, I have always dreamt of surprising everyone. So far in my short lifetime, no one would really believe I could to anything because of my disabilities. To them, that was a sign that my loved ones should completely give up on me – I was nothing. By chance, I managed to prove them wrong. I’ve been to mainstream schools, I’ve learnt how to read, and write, I came out with GCSE’s (not fantastic results, but it’s still something), and A Levels, I’m in my final year at University, I set up a blog, I set up a YouTube Channel and now, I have a few projects in the works. I won’t give them away though. Sorry.

However, there are still may that I have to tackle; I’m sure my loved ones don’t mean to crush my spirits or tell me I shouldn’t do anything because I’m not “experienced enough”. Sometimes, I do get angry and emotional, forcing myself to shut away from the world. And it’s okay because you don’t have to be a person who smiles all the time – I get that compliment a lot as my parents taught me to be happy.

These emotions do teach me something though. Every day when I get up in the morning, I would always listen to Coldplay’s Yellow – although the song’s about one-sided love, it represents my view of the world. I don’t really understand and to be honest, I never will. But what if you create your own world and make it your oyster? It’s something that I am working on.

If parents tell you to not upload something on the Internet, go for it. (As long it’s clean though – no dirty stuff!) If teachers say that you won’t get far, prove them wrong – take courage, focus and study the subjects your love till your last breath. If someone says that you’re “not good enough”, stand up and let your inner voice be your guide. Everything is worth risking for, even the lifestyle you have for many years. I’m happy to be living penniless for a novel that’s worth publishing for. I’m happy to be travelling around the world on my own when I move out. I’m happy to save others rather than myself. And I’m happy to be different – even if I make the occasional mistakes.

This is my world and this is how I’m going to live it.


I know this is a short post but I wanted to get this off my mind – and my chest. It’s something that I’ve always to write for a while. Pathetic, I know but like I said before, I’m letting my inner voice be my guide.


Anyway, must be off. I have a lot of catching up to do. But just remember that if you are lost or alone, just pause, think and mediate. I may not be able to change you but I know that I trust you to follow your own path.



A Letter to My Future Boyfriend

I decided to write this letter, after watching and reading a lot “To my future husband/wife” letters. I don’t know whither if I will get a boyfriend of my own, but this letter (I hope) will prove how much I care for my future sweetheart. 🙂


Sunday 15th February 2015

To my future, special boyfriend,

I’m nervous about writing this letter; I don’t know were to begin… I’m no good at writing but I would do my best. I don’t want to hurt or disappoint you – I just want to love you because I try to say the truth.

I don’t know where you are, what you look like or your name. However, what I do know about you is that you’ll be a handsome, kind, wise and bravest person I will ever meet in this world.

You may be a doctor, a fire-fighter, an actor, musician or a world traveller. You may be shy or you would be an outgoing, social person. You may be a fan of disco, like John Travolta or into reading books; Shakespeare, Darwin, etc.

I don’t care what people think about you, because I appreciate for who you are. You are unique and you are amazing, cool and love you, the way you are.

Someday, we will meet and travel on a life-changing adventures. We will learn to love each other, no matter where we are.

I hope you are well and safe; I cannot wait to meet you and when you do, I promise to be a loving, honest, caring and friendly wife (and a best friend) forever and ever.

Yours Truly,

GiGi. 🙂 xxxx